If you are questioning yourself then you are probably not ready. Marriage is a very risky situation. You always have to ask yourself these simple questions before marring someone: Do I love this person for real?, Is this person the right person for me?, and Do I want to be with this person until death do us part?.
Do I love this person, for real? If you really love this person then you will get that cant eat cant sleep kinda feeling. If you experience this feeling then you are in love for real. If you can say that you have experienced this one type of love than you are one third of the way to knowing that marriage is for you.
Is this person the right person for me? If you believe that this is the right person for you then you should have some things in common with this person. Your "partner" does not have to like EVERYTHING that you like dislike EVERYTHING that you dislike.
Do I want to be with this person until death do us part? If you answered yes to the other two questions then you are almost done. This is the last question before you are positive that you are ready to get married. Do you want to be with this person for the rest of your life? This is a very simple question and you have to answer it on your own.
This is a very serious topic that needs to be addressed simply. If you answered YES to all of these questions then you are absolutely, positively ready for marriage. However, if you answered NO to any of these questions then you are not at all ready for marriage.
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