Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Stop-Drop-and-Roll

     Stop-Drop-and-Roll is a 

technique

 that you would use if your clothes where on fire. BUT in this case it is completely different.

     Stop! Stop what you are doing and THINK ABOUT IT. Don't just continue to do what you are doing even though it may or may not be good. Most of the time if you are not sure if what you are doing is good then it is most likely NOT. Consider the fact that what you are doing may be bad  and GET OVER IT

     Drop! Drop everything that you are doing and express yourself. After you have made the final decision that what you are doing is good then you are allowed to EXPRESS YOURSELF. In some occasions it is okay to just go all out express yourself. Sow other who you are and what you want to be.

     And! And- is not really a part of a sentence. It is: A, N, and D. Not just and. Okay so i will explain to you what each of these LETTERS mean. A: Always Remember to never say never. Some people say oh I could NEVER do anything wrong. Most of the time these are the people that you have to look out for. NNothing is always something. D: Don't forget what I tell you.

     Roll! Kind of like Rock-n-Roll. This is just basically telling you to just be the lean mean cootie queen that is hiding behind your contacts, hair dye, make-up, and fake smile. Do your stuff your own way and don't let anyone stop you from being yourself.

     Thanks for reading really i do thank you. Just in return I hope that you follow my advice and just be your self.

Don't marry..... YET

     Okay you can get married but wait untill you are absolutly positivly ready. This is some important info that you need to know. So read between the lines in your relationship.
     Before you get married for           the first or subsequent time you should stop ignoring a reality of marriage and understand the Divorce Rate Statistics:
Your Marriage will probably end in divorce.
     Although it is not statistically reported, the percentage of people who get married who believe that their current marriage will end in divorce is probably nill, yet even second marriages fail 75% of the time.
Why do people ignore divorce statistics? The reason for this is that people so deeply desire what they perceive as the benefits of feeling loved, that they ignore the warning signs of doom.
Unknowingly all people will sub-consiously believe or consiously rationalize that:
     These warning signs of doom are not really a big deal; Divorce statistics are just numbers and it "won't happen to me"; Things will be different when we are married; They have too much invested to end a "pretty good relationship" supported by the fear of loss; They do not need to work on their own personality and relationship issues; The problem is with the other person, not accepting that they are repeating the same errors that caused disruptions in prior relationships; What they Need is to seek out that dysfuntional relationship resulting from misguided childhood neuro associations about what love is supposed to be, i.e., dysfunctional acts that they subconsciously conclude are acts of love, typically from parental misconduct or maladjustment.
     The Divorce Rate represents a condition of society which constitutes a paradigm factor in feeling loved or unloved. Paradign factors affect the way each person in that society will value what they want and need from a relationship. 
     By understanding how your Values define your needs and wants, you can better evaluate the likelihood of divorce, given how you personally would most likely formulate the Equity of the Deal for you. If you are trying to reconcile or marry again, this insight allows you to become aware of relationship pitfalls, and to better understand and perhaps thereby consiouslydecide what it is that you really want from a relationship, rather than sub-consiously be drawn to a dysfunctional relationship based upon events and circumstances that affected you as a child.
If you are contemplating divorce and wondering how to best position yourself to exit the marriage with minimal damage, these concepts are critical in understanding the how timing can lead to either a  sucessful divorce or a contested divorce nightmare.
    

Friday, February 17, 2012

Don't BE LATE

     I hate when people are late to a meeting or party especially when they are supposed to do something important. They have to be there and then they are late. Right now my friend is mad at me and i just want her to know that since she says i talk too much that i won't talk anymore. I hope she is happy now.

     Okay back to the subject. Never ever be late. People that are late make me so mad that sometimes i just want to push them down some stairs. It is like sometimes I know that they are soposed to be on time and then they are purpusly late. On purpuse.

     This is when you take a chill pill and relax a little. Sometimes people are late because they want you to be mad so you need to trick them and make them feel as if you are not upset at all tjhat they are late then they will nevert be late again.

     If you have huge issues and can't control your anger at all, then you need to literally take a chill pill. Actually go to a doctor and ask them for medicine that relaxes you. You most likely have anger issues. This means that you need to just simpily CALM DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

     I hope that you just take my advise an calm the poop down. Enjoy your life and calm down. now that you get what i am saying the i trust you. Have a great day and enjoy your life.

Do love

     I have decided that i will no longer go in abc order. so here we go. Today we will do a do. okay so today is do Love. It is so importaint to me that u read this.

     Do Love!! Loving has a lot of meanings. It can mean that u are in love or just a pretend love. Today i am going to talk about a lot of different types of love.First i will talk about type one. this is the most favorite part of this blog.

     Type one: I LOVE YOU!!! ok so when u are first starting to date someone you are stuck in the "I LOVE YOU!!" stage. During this stage you call your boyfriend or girlfriend up every five min and tell them "I LOVE YOU!!" this is what we call the cupcake stage.

     Type two: I LIKE YOU!!! OK so this is before u start to date to date them and they are all like "AHH You ALRIGHT!!" During this stage you have a silent but deadly love. This stage makes you hide every thing you belive in so that you dont have to live alone your whole life.

     Type three: ok you are HORRIBLE stage. during this stage u think that this person is so ugly and nasty and mean. This is the stage when No one means any thing to you at all. Plus u need to get out of this stage imedatly. I have decided that you need some serios help.

Friday, February 10, 2012

Do help dont hesitate

     Do help! It is good for you to help others while still helping your self. I know that this may be hard for you with your busy city lives these days but it will make you feel good i promise. If you see someone drop some money pick it up and return it to them dont just keep it.

     Don't hesitate! Dont hesitate to help others. Some of them may not want yor help and that is reasonable. Help the ones that want help. Dont go out of your own way to help though. like dont give a homeless person a room in your house, just maybe let them know where the nearest shelter is.

     Help. that is also an acronynm. H: help ones that want help, E: every one deserves a second chance, L: let your mind breathe, P: please don't lie. This is all ways that you can help yourself and other people around you. It is so importaint for you to imply your own feelings into the senerio.

     Hesitation! this is an acronym. H: help, E: everyone, S: stop, I: immoderately, T: talk it out, A: admire, T: timid, E: every where. Each word or phrase is something that you should consider doing or stop doing. Helping for instance is something you should consider doing or continuing to do.

     I hope that these posts continue to be incredible and help you a lot. I work really hard trying to make these amazing for you and want you to actually learn lessons from me. Yes i am only 13 but even a grown up can learn a lesson or two from a 13 year old.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Do Go Don't Gnaw

     Do go! Go. Spread yourself and express your feelings. You would be supprised what it does for people. It has helped me alot. I am now a googly bubbly person. My friends tell me i can some times be aggravating but that does not bother me a single bit.

     Don't gnaw! Gnawing not only makes you look foolish but it can also ruin your teeth. Okay not that gnaw it actuall is something completly different. Each letter stands for some thing different. G: give up, N: not express, A: always lie, W: wollow. These are the things you should never do.
 
     "Gnawing" can hurt your brain however. If you give up you will never complete your goal. If you never express people will never know who you really are. if you always lie than people will never know when you are telling the truth. and if you wollow you will walk funny.

      Go. tell every one about the real you. Dont hide underneath the shadows of the unforgiven. So what if you are not "perfect" none of us are. you just need to Express yourself. Every one has there own personality so dont try to jack some one elses. that is just not acceptable.

     Well Ihope you still enjoy my posts and can continue to express your self or maybe even start to express yourself. It is so importaint for your to remember everyone elses feelings and your own. Just help yourself by helping others.

Do Function Don't Fight

     Ow!  Don't  fight!  It's  not  good  for  your  health.  My  mom  once  told  me  not  to  fight  unless   someone  hits  me  first.  This  life  lesson  is  not  a  very  good  one  though.  I  have  taught  myself  never  to  fight.  Fighting  causes  big  mistakes.  No  one  ever  means  to  hurt  you.
     Do  Function!  Functioning  can  heal  your  broken  heart  and  mend  your  rlationship.  Many dufferent  definitions  of  function exist.  they  are:  the  kind  of  action  or  activity  proper  to   person,  thing, orinstitution;  the  purpose  for  which  something  is  designed  orexists;  role.  ;  any  ceremonious public  or  social  gathering  or  occasion.  ;  a  factor  related  to  or  dependent  upon  other factors:  Price  is  a  function  of  supply  and  demand.  ;  to  perform  a  specified  action  or  activity;  work;  operate  ;  and  to  have  or  exercise  a  function;  serve.
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     Fighting has a way of making us feel secure inside. However, that does not mean that we can just go around beating people up for no reason at all. Fighting is a crime that needs to be better punished. Yep I said it u need to be punished for fighting.


     Functioning can make you feel comlete. So forget the fighting and start to functioning. It is so good for your health. Functioning can heal depression, dislexia, and sjust straight up saddness.


     Sorry about all the zzzzzz's i thought you might fall asleep reading this one and that is your z time. Please continue to read, comment, and rate. Untill next time, 
                                          
                                          ROCHELLE