This blog was very intersting. I had a great expierience. Every ones blogs where great. I hope to continue blogging just maybe a different topic. I read many blogs and only a few really interested me. i will tell you about those few.
After reading everyones blogs i have seen it all. Alexis wrote a blog about sports. it included swimming, hockey, softball, basketball, soccer, and golf. Basketball sounds really interesting and i might try it one day. I also enjoyed the soccer blog. her blogs where full of life and interesting to read.
Kyneisha talked about training your dog. Her article THE DOG LICKED MY BABY AGAIN talked about a problem that my aunt is having. now i can help her solve it. Her articles helped me alot with traing my dog from the begining.
Carli wrote her blog about books. I enjoyed reading her blogs because i LOVE to read. She was very interesting whereas most blogs about books about books are boring. I will most likely read her blogs again because they are so interesting.
Christian wrote a blog about cooking. He had many recipies for all to enjoy. Not all can post a good recipie like he did. He posted many recipies that i will use to cook for my family.
All and all It was an amazing expierince, writing this blog and all, I really enjoyed this.
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Friday, March 9, 2012
Invite Simplicity Into Your Life and Your Relationship
Conference calls, carpools, drive-thru dinners and text-messaged I love you’s make up the life many of us know today. We hurry to get from one destination to another while constantly juggling thoughts of tomorrow and beyond. We spend more time in our cars and with our co-workers than we do with our families. That means spending less time with our partners. We ignore the fact that we see less and less of our significant other and become more and more confused as to why “we don’t communicate anymore”.
What happens when we can’t deny the disconnect any longer, and the effects of an overextended life have drained our relationship of all its life and vibrancy? We go to therapy, we take a pill, we have an affair, or we have a cocktail. As a relationship coach I have an alternative solution to the above.
If you are having difficulty getting back to the simplicity of your earlier days with each other think of a time when your relationship felt uncomplicated. Write down what you liked about that time. Was it your mental state, surroundings, responsibilities or physical stuff? Which feelings and situations would you like to recreate?
Before you can invite simplicity into your relationship you must first simplify yourself. What you are feeling/experiencing as your reality will manifest in your relationship. I suggest we focus on ourselves so that we can create deeper connection to those we love by providing a strong sense of purpose and self to our loved ones.
Some check points for you to acknowledge
1. Find Purposeful work. Do something you love
Do you drag yourself out of bed in the morning to another day of work? The sheer dread of lifting your head off the pillow is excruciating. To invite simplicity into your life, begin by examining your professional life. Find work that is fun and uses your natural gifts. Explore what you are naturally good at and then begin the process of finding a more suitable job. You may find the process alone creates serenity.
2. Give up the news
What you think about, you bring about. And what you focus on manifests in your life. Those can be scary thoughts when you apply them to what you are inviting into your life by reading or watching the daily news. Are you addicted to the drama? The violence and the tragedy do nothing to add to your inner peace. To simplify your life, spend the next seven days away from the news. Instead, read a book, make positive connections with family and friends or listen to soothing music.
3. Learn to say no
JUST SAY NO! Sounds simple, right? For a lot of people saying NO brings up a lot of stuff: Will I be liked? What if they talk about me, Will I go to hell?? Learning to focus on creating healthy boundaries makes our life easier, for example “When the head of the little league association asks you to work the concessions stand, tell her you can’t. Just say no. Spend the time on yourself instead.
When you use good judgment and integrity you will always be about love and acceptance. Saying no from a loving place is much different than saying no from a hateful, spiteful place. Practice developing boundaries and self love. Saying NO could truly save your life!
4. Embrace the outdoors
Nature is therapeutic. It reminds us of what life is really about, and connects us to the simple gifts that we all too often overlook. If you are stuck at the office feeling stressed and frustrated, imagine taking a walk through the woods. Envision a flowing brook. Capture the smell of wildflowers and honeysuckle in your mind. Feel the warmth of the sun on your face. If you’re home, consider the therapeutic benefits of gardening. Even the simplest of gardens can release the stress accumulated in your head, neck and shoulders after a long day of meetings.
5. LOL (Laugh out loud)
Are you too busy to laugh and too serious to smile? Are you caught up in your own sense of importance? Many of us have tucked away the inner child who longs for attention and laughter. Laughing releases a mountain of tension. It’s a quick way to feel happy. When you let go and laugh, it’s infectious. Everyone around you feels it. A good belly laugh makes your belly muscles contract. It causes a chain reaction that works out the shoulders, and leaves muscles more relaxed afterward. It even provides a good workout for the heart. Count how many opportunities you have to laugh today.
6. Be silent
Start a practice of sitting with your Higher Power and asking for a quiet mind. Start your day off with a ritual of reflection and praise. At the office, shut your door for 10 minutes, close your eyes and simply be still. It will be hard at first, but after a few days, you will find yourself feeling calmer and happier than you have felt in a long time. Take time to recharge during your day!
7. Experience Gratitude
Appreciate all the simple things in your life: the sunshine, the sky, the shoes on your feet and the heart beating in your chest. Being grateful creates an energy that flows through your body and shines through your eyes. It’s what makes happy happen. Create a gratitude calendar that is full of simple reason you’re grateful.
8. Create a simplicity statement
Write down your own personal declaration of what a simple life means to you.
A simple life means different things and is valued differently by each individual. For me, it means eliminating all the drama, all the unnecessary “stuff,” choosing peace over chaos, and spending my time doing what’s important to me.
For you it may mean spending quality time with people you love, and doing the things you love. It could mean getting rid of the clutter so you are left with only what really matters to you.
Friday, March 2, 2012
Marriage, Is it for me?
If you are questioning yourself then you are probably not ready. Marriage is a very risky situation. You always have to ask yourself these simple questions before marring someone: Do I love this person for real?, Is this person the right person for me?, and Do I want to be with this person until death do us part?.
Do I love this person, for real? If you really love this person then you will get that cant eat cant sleep kinda feeling. If you experience this feeling then you are in love for real. If you can say that you have experienced this one type of love than you are one third of the way to knowing that marriage is for you.
Is this person the right person for me? If you believe that this is the right person for you then you should have some things in common with this person. Your "partner" does not have to like EVERYTHING that you like dislike EVERYTHING that you dislike.
Do I want to be with this person until death do us part? If you answered yes to the other two questions then you are almost done. This is the last question before you are positive that you are ready to get married. Do you want to be with this person for the rest of your life? This is a very simple question and you have to answer it on your own.
This is a very serious topic that needs to be addressed simply. If you answered YES to all of these questions then you are absolutely, positively ready for marriage. However, if you answered NO to any of these questions then you are not at all ready for marriage.
Do I love this person, for real? If you really love this person then you will get that cant eat cant sleep kinda feeling. If you experience this feeling then you are in love for real. If you can say that you have experienced this one type of love than you are one third of the way to knowing that marriage is for you.
Is this person the right person for me? If you believe that this is the right person for you then you should have some things in common with this person. Your "partner" does not have to like EVERYTHING that you like dislike EVERYTHING that you dislike.
Do I want to be with this person until death do us part? If you answered yes to the other two questions then you are almost done. This is the last question before you are positive that you are ready to get married. Do you want to be with this person for the rest of your life? This is a very simple question and you have to answer it on your own.
This is a very serious topic that needs to be addressed simply. If you answered YES to all of these questions then you are absolutely, positively ready for marriage. However, if you answered NO to any of these questions then you are not at all ready for marriage.
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
Stop-Drop-and-Roll
Stop-Drop-and-Roll is a
technique
that you would use if your clothes where on fire. BUT in this case it is completely different.
Stop! Stop what you are doing and THINK ABOUT IT. Don't just continue to do what you are doing even though it may or may not be good. Most of the time if you are not sure if what you are doing is good then it is most likely NOT. Consider the fact that what you are doing may be bad and GET OVER IT.
Drop! Drop everything that you are doing and express yourself. After you have made the final decision that what you are doing is good then you are allowed to EXPRESS YOURSELF. In some occasions it is okay to just go all out express yourself. Sow other who you are and what you want to be.
And! And- is not really a part of a sentence. It is: A, N, and D. Not just and. Okay so i will explain to you what each of these LETTERS mean. A: Always Remember to never say never. Some people say oh I could NEVER do anything wrong. Most of the time these are the people that you have to look out for. N: Nothing is always something. D: Don't forget what I tell you.
Roll! Kind of like Rock-n-Roll. This is just basically telling you to just be the lean mean cootie queen that is hiding behind your contacts, hair dye, make-up, and fake smile. Do your stuff your own way and don't let anyone stop you from being yourself.
Thanks for reading really i do thank you. Just in return I hope that you follow my advice and just be your self.
Don't marry..... YET
Okay you can get married but wait untill you are absolutly positivly ready. This is some important info that you need to know. So read between the lines in your relationship.
Before you get married for the first or subsequent time you should stop ignoring a reality of marriage and understand the Divorce Rate Statistics:
Your Marriage will probably end in divorce.
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Although it is not statistically reported, the percentage of people who get married who believe that their current marriage will end in divorce is probably nill, yet even second marriages fail 75% of the time.
Why do people ignore divorce statistics? The reason for this is that people so deeply desire what they perceive as the benefits of feeling loved, that they ignore the warning signs of doom.
Unknowingly all people will sub-consiously believe or consiously rationalize that:
These warning signs of doom are not really a big deal; Divorce statistics are just numbers and it "won't happen to me"; Things will be different when we are married; They have too much invested to end a "pretty good relationship" supported by the fear of loss; They do not need to work on their own personality and relationship issues; The problem is with the other person, not accepting that they are repeating the same errors that caused disruptions in prior relationships; What they Need is to seek out that dysfuntional relationship resulting from misguided childhood neuro associations about what love is supposed to be, i.e., dysfunctional acts that they subconsciously conclude are acts of love, typically from parental misconduct or maladjustment.
The Divorce Rate represents a condition of society which constitutes a paradigm factor in feeling loved or unloved. Paradign factors affect the way each person in that society will value what they want and need from a relationship.
By understanding how your Values define your needs and wants, you can better evaluate the likelihood of divorce, given how you personally would most likely formulate the Equity of the Deal for you. If you are trying to reconcile or marry again, this insight allows you to become aware of relationship pitfalls, and to better understand and perhaps thereby consiouslydecide what it is that you really want from a relationship, rather than sub-consiously be drawn to a dysfunctional relationship based upon events and circumstances that affected you as a child.
If you are contemplating divorce and wondering how to best position yourself to exit the marriage with minimal damage, these concepts are critical in understanding the how timing can lead to either a sucessful divorce or a contested divorce nightmare.
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Friday, February 17, 2012
Don't BE LATE
I hate when people are late to a meeting or party especially when they are supposed to do something important. They have to be there and then they are late. Right now my friend is mad at me and i just want her to know that since she says i talk too much that i won't talk anymore. I hope she is happy now.
Okay back to the subject. Never ever be late. People that are late make me so mad that sometimes i just want to push them down some stairs. It is like sometimes I know that they are soposed to be on time and then they are purpusly late. On purpuse.
This is when you take a chill pill and relax a little. Sometimes people are late because they want you to be mad so you need to trick them and make them feel as if you are not upset at all tjhat they are late then they will nevert be late again.
If you have huge issues and can't control your anger at all, then you need to literally take a chill pill. Actually go to a doctor and ask them for medicine that relaxes you. You most likely have anger issues. This means that you need to just simpily CALM DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope that you just take my advise an calm the poop down. Enjoy your life and calm down. now that you get what i am saying the i trust you. Have a great day and enjoy your life.
Okay back to the subject. Never ever be late. People that are late make me so mad that sometimes i just want to push them down some stairs. It is like sometimes I know that they are soposed to be on time and then they are purpusly late. On purpuse.
This is when you take a chill pill and relax a little. Sometimes people are late because they want you to be mad so you need to trick them and make them feel as if you are not upset at all tjhat they are late then they will nevert be late again.
If you have huge issues and can't control your anger at all, then you need to literally take a chill pill. Actually go to a doctor and ask them for medicine that relaxes you. You most likely have anger issues. This means that you need to just simpily CALM DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope that you just take my advise an calm the poop down. Enjoy your life and calm down. now that you get what i am saying the i trust you. Have a great day and enjoy your life.
Do love
I have decided that i will no longer go in abc order. so here we go. Today we will do a do. okay so today is do Love. It is so importaint to me that u read this.
Do Love!! Loving has a lot of meanings. It can mean that u are in love or just a pretend love. Today i am going to talk about a lot of different types of love.First i will talk about type one. this is the most favorite part of this blog.
Type one: I LOVE YOU!!! ok so when u are first starting to date someone you are stuck in the "I LOVE YOU!!" stage. During this stage you call your boyfriend or girlfriend up every five min and tell them "I LOVE YOU!!" this is what we call the cupcake stage.
Type two: I LIKE YOU!!! OK so this is before u start to date to date them and they are all like "AHH You ALRIGHT!!" During this stage you have a silent but deadly love. This stage makes you hide every thing you belive in so that you dont have to live alone your whole life.
Type three: ok you are HORRIBLE stage. during this stage u think that this person is so ugly and nasty and mean. This is the stage when No one means any thing to you at all. Plus u need to get out of this stage imedatly. I have decided that you need some serios help.
Do Love!! Loving has a lot of meanings. It can mean that u are in love or just a pretend love. Today i am going to talk about a lot of different types of love.First i will talk about type one. this is the most favorite part of this blog.
Type one: I LOVE YOU!!! ok so when u are first starting to date someone you are stuck in the "I LOVE YOU!!" stage. During this stage you call your boyfriend or girlfriend up every five min and tell them "I LOVE YOU!!" this is what we call the cupcake stage.
Type two: I LIKE YOU!!! OK so this is before u start to date to date them and they are all like "AHH You ALRIGHT!!" During this stage you have a silent but deadly love. This stage makes you hide every thing you belive in so that you dont have to live alone your whole life.
Type three: ok you are HORRIBLE stage. during this stage u think that this person is so ugly and nasty and mean. This is the stage when No one means any thing to you at all. Plus u need to get out of this stage imedatly. I have decided that you need some serios help.
Friday, February 10, 2012
Do help dont hesitate
Do help! It is good for you to help others while still helping your self. I know that this may be hard for you with your busy city lives these days but it will make you feel good i promise. If you see someone drop some money pick it up and return it to them dont just keep it.
Don't hesitate! Dont hesitate to help others. Some of them may not want yor help and that is reasonable. Help the ones that want help. Dont go out of your own way to help though. like dont give a homeless person a room in your house, just maybe let them know where the nearest shelter is.
Help. that is also an acronynm. H: help ones that want help, E: every one deserves a second chance, L: let your mind breathe, P: please don't lie. This is all ways that you can help yourself and other people around you. It is so importaint for you to imply your own feelings into the senerio.
Hesitation! this is an acronym. H: help, E: everyone, S: stop, I: immoderately, T: talk it out, A: admire, T: timid, E: every where. Each word or phrase is something that you should consider doing or stop doing. Helping for instance is something you should consider doing or continuing to do.
I hope that these posts continue to be incredible and help you a lot. I work really hard trying to make these amazing for you and want you to actually learn lessons from me. Yes i am only 13 but even a grown up can learn a lesson or two from a 13 year old.
Don't hesitate! Dont hesitate to help others. Some of them may not want yor help and that is reasonable. Help the ones that want help. Dont go out of your own way to help though. like dont give a homeless person a room in your house, just maybe let them know where the nearest shelter is.
Help. that is also an acronynm. H: help ones that want help, E: every one deserves a second chance, L: let your mind breathe, P: please don't lie. This is all ways that you can help yourself and other people around you. It is so importaint for you to imply your own feelings into the senerio.
Hesitation! this is an acronym. H: help, E: everyone, S: stop, I: immoderately, T: talk it out, A: admire, T: timid, E: every where. Each word or phrase is something that you should consider doing or stop doing. Helping for instance is something you should consider doing or continuing to do.
I hope that these posts continue to be incredible and help you a lot. I work really hard trying to make these amazing for you and want you to actually learn lessons from me. Yes i am only 13 but even a grown up can learn a lesson or two from a 13 year old.
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Do Go Don't Gnaw
Do go! Go. Spread yourself and express your feelings. You would be supprised what it does for people. It has helped me alot. I am now a googly bubbly person. My friends tell me i can some times be aggravating but that does not bother me a single bit.
Don't gnaw! Gnawing not only makes you look foolish but it can also ruin your teeth. Okay not that gnaw it actuall is something completly different. Each letter stands for some thing different. G: give up, N: not express, A: always lie, W: wollow. These are the things you should never do.
"Gnawing" can hurt your brain however. If you give up you will never complete your goal. If you never express people will never know who you really are. if you always lie than people will never know when you are telling the truth. and if you wollow you will walk funny.
Go. tell every one about the real you. Dont hide underneath the shadows of the unforgiven. So what if you are not "perfect" none of us are. you just need to Express yourself. Every one has there own personality so dont try to jack some one elses. that is just not acceptable.
Well Ihope you still enjoy my posts and can continue to express your self or maybe even start to express yourself. It is so importaint for your to remember everyone elses feelings and your own. Just help yourself by helping others.
Don't gnaw! Gnawing not only makes you look foolish but it can also ruin your teeth. Okay not that gnaw it actuall is something completly different. Each letter stands for some thing different. G: give up, N: not express, A: always lie, W: wollow. These are the things you should never do.
"Gnawing" can hurt your brain however. If you give up you will never complete your goal. If you never express people will never know who you really are. if you always lie than people will never know when you are telling the truth. and if you wollow you will walk funny.
Go. tell every one about the real you. Dont hide underneath the shadows of the unforgiven. So what if you are not "perfect" none of us are. you just need to Express yourself. Every one has there own personality so dont try to jack some one elses. that is just not acceptable.
Well Ihope you still enjoy my posts and can continue to express your self or maybe even start to express yourself. It is so importaint for your to remember everyone elses feelings and your own. Just help yourself by helping others.
Do Function Don't Fight
Ow! Don't fight! It's not good for your health. My mom once told me not to fight unless someone hits me first. This life lesson is not a very good one though. I have taught myself never to fight. Fighting causes big mistakes. No one ever means to hurt you.
Do Function! Functioning can heal your broken heart and mend your rlationship. Many dufferent definitions of function exist. they are: the kind of action or activity proper to a person, thing, orinstitution; the purpose for which something is designed orexists; role. ; any ceremonious public or social gathering or occasion. ; a factor related to or dependent upon other factors: Price is a function of supply and demand. ; to perform a specified action or activity; work; operate ; and to have or exercise a function; serve.
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Fighting has a way of making us feel secure inside. However, that does not mean that we can just go around beating people up for no reason at all. Fighting is a crime that needs to be better punished. Yep I said it u need to be punished for fighting.
Functioning can make you feel comlete. So forget the fighting and start to functioning. It is so good for your health. Functioning can heal depression, dislexia, and sjust straight up saddness.
Sorry about all the zzzzzz's i thought you might fall asleep reading this one and that is your z time. Please continue to read, comment, and rate. Untill next time,
ROCHELLE
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Fighting has a way of making us feel secure inside. However, that does not mean that we can just go around beating people up for no reason at all. Fighting is a crime that needs to be better punished. Yep I said it u need to be punished for fighting.
Functioning can make you feel comlete. So forget the fighting and start to functioning. It is so good for your health. Functioning can heal depression, dislexia, and sjust straight up saddness.
Sorry about all the zzzzzz's i thought you might fall asleep reading this one and that is your z time. Please continue to read, comment, and rate. Untill next time,
ROCHELLE
Monday, January 30, 2012
Do Enjoy Don't Ignite
Do enjoy! That means that you need to enjoy life and stop complaining! There are times in a mans life when he needs to complain. Like when hes not getting any ice cream or chocolate bars. So we need to suck it up and get the man some ice cream or a chocolate bar. Men are thieves they steel your heart and then run away with it.
Women are supposed to serve men.I am just kidding my peeps. Any way i hope that u really know how to treat a woman men. Treating a woman like a house keeper is not acceptable. we are not prizes that are waiting to be won by some pig. We don't need you, men. We would be perfectly happy without any men in our lives.
Don't ignite! Women by just standing their you are basically lighting the fire. If you think you are a prize then you are hanging out with the wrong people. Start fresh, make a new boyfriend and even some new friends. Every one deserves a second chance in something.
Men are you really going to sit there and let a woman be upset because you hurt her? if you answered yes then you need some serious help. Don't worry that is what i am here for. Sometimes i need serious help too. I have learned how to deal with my problems, for the most part. : ( This is what my friend Ky'Neisha tells me. Then she laughs in my face, but it is all good when she solves my problems.
I hope you enjoy this mixed up crazy milkshake of a blog. Please continue too read. I promise they will not all be milkshakes. This one is chocolate Hope you enjoy because i work really hard but i think this may not workout. sorry but this is for school so i have to write 15 of these milkshakes, chocolate. : ) LOL! Talk to you another day bye-bye!
Women are supposed to serve men.I am just kidding my peeps. Any way i hope that u really know how to treat a woman men. Treating a woman like a house keeper is not acceptable. we are not prizes that are waiting to be won by some pig. We don't need you, men. We would be perfectly happy without any men in our lives.
Don't ignite! Women by just standing their you are basically lighting the fire. If you think you are a prize then you are hanging out with the wrong people. Start fresh, make a new boyfriend and even some new friends. Every one deserves a second chance in something.
Men are you really going to sit there and let a woman be upset because you hurt her? if you answered yes then you need some serious help. Don't worry that is what i am here for. Sometimes i need serious help too. I have learned how to deal with my problems, for the most part. : ( This is what my friend Ky'Neisha tells me. Then she laughs in my face, but it is all good when she solves my problems.
I hope you enjoy this mixed up crazy milkshake of a blog. Please continue too read. I promise they will not all be milkshakes. This one is chocolate Hope you enjoy because i work really hard but i think this may not workout. sorry but this is for school so i have to write 15 of these milkshakes, chocolate. : ) LOL! Talk to you another day bye-bye!
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Do Demonstrate Don't Demolish
Do demonstrate, that means that you need to enjoy life and and demonstrate your talents. Don't demolish that means that you need to not hate because someone else has some talent that you don't have. Demonstrate your talents world wide. If you can draw then that means you should join an artist website to publish your artwork to. An example website is: www.artwork.com. Check it out!!!!!! If you can sing then publish your song wit a video to www.YouTube.com. All of these things are very interesting ideas.
Do Demonstrate!!!!!!!! Show your love for art or music or whatever it you enjoy. Find a website or place to publish you imagination. It is as simple as a quick Google search. Not everyone has the same talent but everyone has a talent. Weather you are old are young or in the middle, weather you r little or big, weather you are skinny or phat. YOU HAVE A TALENT!!!!!!!!!! Every one has a talent.
Don't Demolish!!!!!!!! Don't kill everyone elses dreams because you "think" you don't have your own. The truth about the matter is that every one has a talent no matter what it is. No i cant just swing a wand and tell you what your talents are. Search deep in your brain and your heart, way in the back. You will find out what it is sooner or later.
#1: The Demonstrator. Hey! You are cool people. I am much like you. Just keep doing your little hearts desires. They are probably getting you very far in life. If not they will be pretty soon. Just do a Google search, find what you are looking for, and publish your works of art. YOU WILL SUCCEED IN LIFE!!!!! I'm sure of it.
#2: The Demolish-er. Just Stop!!! That is all that I can say to Yall. :P Try harder to find your inner artist. No one likes a demolish-er. My advise is change your act COMPLETELY! Stop Demilishing, Start Creating, and Continue to Demonstrate. That is the 3 easiest steps to changing your act.
Thanks for reading!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Do Demonstrate!!!!!!!! Show your love for art or music or whatever it you enjoy. Find a website or place to publish you imagination. It is as simple as a quick Google search. Not everyone has the same talent but everyone has a talent. Weather you are old are young or in the middle, weather you r little or big, weather you are skinny or phat. YOU HAVE A TALENT!!!!!!!!!! Every one has a talent.
Don't Demolish!!!!!!!! Don't kill everyone elses dreams because you "think" you don't have your own. The truth about the matter is that every one has a talent no matter what it is. No i cant just swing a wand and tell you what your talents are. Search deep in your brain and your heart, way in the back. You will find out what it is sooner or later.
#1: The Demonstrator. Hey! You are cool people. I am much like you. Just keep doing your little hearts desires. They are probably getting you very far in life. If not they will be pretty soon. Just do a Google search, find what you are looking for, and publish your works of art. YOU WILL SUCCEED IN LIFE!!!!! I'm sure of it.
#2: The Demolish-er. Just Stop!!! That is all that I can say to Yall. :P Try harder to find your inner artist. No one likes a demolish-er. My advise is change your act COMPLETELY! Stop Demilishing, Start Creating, and Continue to Demonstrate. That is the 3 easiest steps to changing your act.
Thanks for reading!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Do Create Don't Hate
Okay you guys this will be the only one that is not in ABC order. Post number 3 please comment.
Do Create! Your mind grows as you use it. My brain isb constantly growing because i am always creating. To create is to Force your mid to think in different ways. There is writing, drawing, designing, and well... anything else you can think of.
Don't Hate! Nobody likes a hater. Chances are you are being a hater because you have no idea how to create well that is not true. To write a story you just have to start wit a topic or a beginner sentence. Here are some examples: "Once apon a time in a small village..." "It was the night before..." "It was a dark spooky night when..." and there are more like that. To design just pick a pattern and sew. To draw just pick something and draw it. Who cares if someone says you cant draw because someone somewhere will like it, I promise.
Creating is an activity that stimulates the mind. Creating is a fun way to enjoy what you are doing and keep your brain going all at the same time. Many people think that creating is "for 2 year olds" that is not true. I am definatly not two and I create every day by writing this blog. And who has a two year old that can draw a good picture or write a good book or even design a good outfit. If creating was for babies where would the world be?
Many people think that the only way to create is to color and build but that is not true. Every one has there own ideas of creating just do your stuff your way.
Do Create! Your mind grows as you use it. My brain isb constantly growing because i am always creating. To create is to Force your mid to think in different ways. There is writing, drawing, designing, and well... anything else you can think of.
Don't Hate! Nobody likes a hater. Chances are you are being a hater because you have no idea how to create well that is not true. To write a story you just have to start wit a topic or a beginner sentence. Here are some examples: "Once apon a time in a small village..." "It was the night before..." "It was a dark spooky night when..." and there are more like that. To design just pick a pattern and sew. To draw just pick something and draw it. Who cares if someone says you cant draw because someone somewhere will like it, I promise.
Creating is an activity that stimulates the mind. Creating is a fun way to enjoy what you are doing and keep your brain going all at the same time. Many people think that creating is "for 2 year olds" that is not true. I am definatly not two and I create every day by writing this blog. And who has a two year old that can draw a good picture or write a good book or even design a good outfit. If creating was for babies where would the world be?
Many people think that the only way to create is to color and build but that is not true. Every one has there own ideas of creating just do your stuff your way.
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Do be Brave Don't be Bullied
Okay number 2 how did you guys and gals like my first post. Again I just want to let you all know it is okay to comment i like to hear feedback. Just remember I am doing this for y'all.
Do be Brave! Just because you are smaller or a little different does not mean it is okay for others to pick on you. Don't be Bullied! Stand up for yourself or for others that you see getting picked on.
Point of view number 1: If you are a bully then you need to think why you bully. Possibly it is because your are a little on the heavy side or you where once bullied and now the only way you can make yourself feel good is to bully others. That is not a good way to resolve your problems. Think about how you are making others feel. Put yourselves in your "preys" shoes.
Point of view number 2: If you are bullied and stand up for yourself you are doing good. Keep it up that does not however make it okay for your bully to bully you. I was bullied and still am. I know what you are going through just stay strong and don't follow trends. Just be you. I am sure you are great. I was teased because of my weight and that made myself confidence go from 100 to 10. Now it is back at 50 and i am doing great all because of me standing up for myself. Tell your bully who is boss and that is you. Don't do something risky and get yourself hurt. It is best to never travel alone that is when you are targeted. Be Careful!
Point of view number 3: If you are bullied but say nothing you have a problem. Stand up for yourself and be heard you are just as important as every other person in this world and you do not deserve what you are being dished out. That however does not give you any excuse not to stand up for yourself. Again, I was once like you until i decided that i was not going to live with the pain that comes with being bullied. The day i decide i did not like being a zero i stood up and helped myself because you cant just sit around all of your life and expect some kind heart to come help you. You are important!
Point of view number 4: If you are a by-standard then you are still not off the hook. Your job is to help the bullied. I am sure you are friends with some of the bullied yet you just stand back in fear of the bully turning and coming for you. It is okay you can learn from the beginning. Step one Help out. Step 2 don't fear. that should be enough to get you started.
Thank you that is the end of day two. Come back tomorrow for day 3.
Do be Brave! Just because you are smaller or a little different does not mean it is okay for others to pick on you. Don't be Bullied! Stand up for yourself or for others that you see getting picked on.
Point of view number 1: If you are a bully then you need to think why you bully. Possibly it is because your are a little on the heavy side or you where once bullied and now the only way you can make yourself feel good is to bully others. That is not a good way to resolve your problems. Think about how you are making others feel. Put yourselves in your "preys" shoes.
Point of view number 2: If you are bullied and stand up for yourself you are doing good. Keep it up that does not however make it okay for your bully to bully you. I was bullied and still am. I know what you are going through just stay strong and don't follow trends. Just be you. I am sure you are great. I was teased because of my weight and that made myself confidence go from 100 to 10. Now it is back at 50 and i am doing great all because of me standing up for myself. Tell your bully who is boss and that is you. Don't do something risky and get yourself hurt. It is best to never travel alone that is when you are targeted. Be Careful!
Point of view number 3: If you are bullied but say nothing you have a problem. Stand up for yourself and be heard you are just as important as every other person in this world and you do not deserve what you are being dished out. That however does not give you any excuse not to stand up for yourself. Again, I was once like you until i decided that i was not going to live with the pain that comes with being bullied. The day i decide i did not like being a zero i stood up and helped myself because you cant just sit around all of your life and expect some kind heart to come help you. You are important!
Point of view number 4: If you are a by-standard then you are still not off the hook. Your job is to help the bullied. I am sure you are friends with some of the bullied yet you just stand back in fear of the bully turning and coming for you. It is okay you can learn from the beginning. Step one Help out. Step 2 don't fear. that should be enough to get you started.
Thank you that is the end of day two. Come back tomorrow for day 3.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
Do Admire Don't Aspire
Hello every one! This is my first blog ever, so i hope you enjoy it!
Do admire! It is okay to admire what everybody else has. Don't aspire! Just because someone else has it does not mean that you have to.Some one is always going to have something that you don't, however that does not mean that you have to run out and get it.
There is always going to be something new that you want. My advise is to keep strong. Don't let what some one else has make you go bankrupt. If you have an annual income then it will be okay to treat yourself to something special some times but you do not have to buy everything that you think is nice or cool or pretty. (by annual I mean you have an actual job that actually gives you an actual check with the same amount of money on it at least once a month.)
If you have "me want" issues then my advise is to have your friends out to a restaurant or to your house rather then to go to their house. If you do go to a party at their house try to stay in a room where you have seen everything before. Also you might want to delete your credit card account before you get in debt. Try not to carry cash on you unless it is mandatory. And please pay your bills before you go shopping.Not every one can withhold the mighty powers of the "i wants" but as long as you are trying your hardest then i approve.
If you are pretty good at not wanting to buy what every one else has then my advise is to keep doing what you are doing because you must be doing something good. However this does not give you bragging rights because you are not yet perfect. In order to be perfect you must congratulate not hate. My Dad always says, "Don't hate Congratulate!" and that is my advise to you.
If you are perfect then don change any thing. Unless you don't want any thing because you already have everything, then you really have problems. But do not worry that is what i am here for. My advise is just simpily, STOP SHOPPING! There you have it my first blog ever. How was it please comment or however that works, Thanks!
Do admire! It is okay to admire what everybody else has. Don't aspire! Just because someone else has it does not mean that you have to.Some one is always going to have something that you don't, however that does not mean that you have to run out and get it.
There is always going to be something new that you want. My advise is to keep strong. Don't let what some one else has make you go bankrupt. If you have an annual income then it will be okay to treat yourself to something special some times but you do not have to buy everything that you think is nice or cool or pretty. (by annual I mean you have an actual job that actually gives you an actual check with the same amount of money on it at least once a month.)
If you have "me want" issues then my advise is to have your friends out to a restaurant or to your house rather then to go to their house. If you do go to a party at their house try to stay in a room where you have seen everything before. Also you might want to delete your credit card account before you get in debt. Try not to carry cash on you unless it is mandatory. And please pay your bills before you go shopping.Not every one can withhold the mighty powers of the "i wants" but as long as you are trying your hardest then i approve.
If you are pretty good at not wanting to buy what every one else has then my advise is to keep doing what you are doing because you must be doing something good. However this does not give you bragging rights because you are not yet perfect. In order to be perfect you must congratulate not hate. My Dad always says, "Don't hate Congratulate!" and that is my advise to you.
If you are perfect then don change any thing. Unless you don't want any thing because you already have everything, then you really have problems. But do not worry that is what i am here for. My advise is just simpily, STOP SHOPPING! There you have it my first blog ever. How was it please comment or however that works, Thanks!
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